My Story

I pretty much felt like a loser most of my life...

I was smart, but that’s about all I really had going for me. I did OK in school, but I wasn’t great. I was lazy and unmotivated. I didn’t really have much going in terms of athletics. I was what you would call skinny fat. And as far as women were concerned. I was scared to even talk to a girl that I liked, and when I did get up the courage to do it… REJECTION.

It was bad. Really bad. And the worst part is I thought I was hopeless.

I managed to make decent money as a software developer, but I knew that I could never actually be rich because I had no idea how to start a business, and I didn’t really know any other way to make money.

I was convinced all my problems were due to my bad genetics and bad luck. I just wasn’t blessed with the talent, drive, motivation, or jawline that other successful guys had.

I was a typical nice guy and a pushover. I felt sorry for myself, and I had the victim mindset.

I ended up meeting a girl and getting married, but she never really seemed attracted to me and she would get angry and me and treat me like shit, but guess what I did? Yeah, I just took it and stayed with her even though I was hurting so badly inside.

I just wanted to be loved. I just wanted to be good enough. I just wanted to feel good about myself and feel like I was “the man.”

Finally, one day I had enough. I had to go to the store to buy some size 46 pants because my size 44 pants wouldn’t fit me anymore, and I had this “come to Jesus” moment.

“Jeez John, you are a fat fuck.”

“Not only are you a fat fuck, but you are a loser. You play World of Warcraft as soon as you get home from work. You eat junk. You don’t take care of yourself. You are lazy. You are pathetic. And worst of all, you pretend to be confident when you know deep inside you are a pussy.”

Shit. I was done. That was it. NO MORE!

It was in that moment that I realized that my life was slipping by and that I would NEVER have the life I so desperately wanted to have because I had become complacent.

I made a vow to change my life, and so I did.

Here I am over 13 years later, and now I’m in the best shape of my life, have a wonderful, EXTREMELY HOT wife who’s 11 years younger than me and completely adores me and worships me as a sex god. I have passive income coming in each month from my real estate that pays for just about everything in my life. I am jacked and stay at a low body fat all year round, and I get shit done instead of just thinking about it.

Oh yeah, and the masculinity part? I’m no longer that sexless pushover guy. Before I got married to my wife, I learned how to pick up girls at bars and nightclubs and get them to come straight home with me. I may have gone a little too far indulging my dark side, but I learned how to seduce women and build their attraction.

But, the best part is I FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF. I KNOW I am the man now. I know it deep within my heart. I feel it every day. I no longer feel like a loser. I feel like a champion.

Now the big question you probably are asking yourself is “How did he do it?”

Well, let me tell you…

How I Transformed My Life

It wasn’t easy, but I was determined. I was not going to keep being a fat, loser fuck, who was afraid of women.

I decided I was going to do whatever it took to stop being a loser and start creating the life I always wanted to have, so…

I picked up some books. Yes, that’s right. It all started with reading books. Who would have guessed?

I ferociously devoured the best books I could find, listening to audiobooks every day while I was running. I read hundreds and hundreds of books, and I took what I was learning from them and started applying it to my life.

I punished myself physically, training for marathons and then ultra marathons, running over 50 miles. I was relentless in the gym and trained until the callouses ripped off my hands.

I learned exactly how to eat, how to train, how to build the best physique I could from the books I was reading and all the information I could get my hands on.

I stumbled upon stoic philosophy, and that completely changed my mindset. I stopped being a victim, and I started taking full responsibility for my life.

I decided I wasn’t going to be afraid of women anymore, so one day, when I was running on the beach, I saw a few cute girls, and it took every ounce of courage I possessed to go up to one of them and say hello, but it was the drop of water that broke the dam.

I went out night after night, facing my fears and honing my skills until not only was I not afraid to talk to women, I got a sick rush out of it. Even rejection became my bitch, because it made me feel even more alive, knowing it didn’t phase me.

During the day, I worked hard building my business and investing in real estate. First, I had to work my regular job and stay up all night working on my business ventures and recording videos and training courses, but then I reached a point where I could quit my job and focus just on business.

I still read and read. Every chance I could. Every good book that anyone recommended, I read it.

I was learning so many things, I was growing so rapidly. Everything in my life was changing. I didn’t take shit from anyone anymore. I knew I was the man, and I started acting like it. My confidence increased, and I finally felt like I was good enough, now I knew I was more than good enough, I felt GREAT.

Enter The Bulldog Mindset

That’s when I realized that the best thing I could possibly do was to create a new business to help other men like me who didn’t have the guidance to make it on their own.

I stumbled on the path to success, and I had to blindly feel my way around until I made it to my destination, and it took me years to do it. But I realized that I had all the answers now that the younger me was seeking.

I started a new YouTube channel called Bulldog Mindset and shortly after started the Bulldog Mindset Membership. I put EVERYTHING I knew about mindset, women, dating, investing, making money, fitness, diets, and productivity in there until it expanded to over 200 lessons.

I started doing coaching calls and coaching men to transform their lives the way I had done, and I saw their results, and some of their results surpassed even mine!

And that’s what I’m still doing today, and that’s why I want you to be a part of it.

Look, I know how it is.

I literally was YOU. Maybe we had slightly different backgrounds. Maybe you had more success in some areas than I did. But, I know how it feels to not feel like you are good enough. To feel like you just can’t get ahead. To feel like you could just get a chance, you could prove how good you are.

Well, here it is. Here is your chance.

I want to help you to completely transform your life inside and out.

If this resonates with you, click the link below and join us in the Bulldog Mindset Membership. I would love to have you be part of our community and start your journey.

“It’s a great community all around. You get a lot of support and accountability. It helps you move towards your goals in every aspect of your life.” — Michael

“This has been the most successful year financially. A lot of that is due to the Bulldog Mindset.”
— Antony